Godly Aggressiveness (vs. Worldly Aggressiveness) involves setting the right, Godly priorities and having Godly determination.
And from the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and the violent take it by force.” Matthew 11:12 NKJV
“But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.” Matthew 6:33 NKJV